Storytelling dates back thousands of years to the dawn of time. Stories are created from the cradle to the grave, from our first cry to our last breath. We all tell stories, we all love to listen to stories, and all of us can invent stories every day.
They are what make us individual and unique. From the moment we are born, parents read bedtime stories to their children, and as we grow, we realise that we are forming stories of our own, some true, some fictional.
Storytelling is not just a way of communicating; it is a way of discovery, entertainment and knowledge building. Sharing our stories enriches the lives of the people we tell them to fulfil a need to be accepted and valued. The human connection we make by telling stories can affect our intellectual development.
Everyone has stories to tell, maintaining the timeless link to our ancestors and predecessors created before us. Traditional storytelling is how history evolves and how valuable they are in passing down to future generations.
Stories preserve culture and pass on cultural knowledge from one generation to another. In essence, stories keep civilization alive. Stories provide an eternal link to ancient traditions, legends, myths, and our heritage.
Reading books written by our favourite authors can provide entertainment; telling stories can provoke interest and stimulation in others. People who are living with dementia can benefit from stories that improve their well-being by reflecting on past events that may be clearer than present-day events.
As we enter our third age, the importance of storytelling becomes more significant as we reflect on a lifetime of experiences and discoveries. When talking to elders about the bygone years, a treasure trove of thoughts and memories comes to the surface, and the sharing and comparing of past events becomes reminiscent and fulfilling.
Many elders have similar experiences and recall events or times from their past with warmth, affection, and empathy.
Tom tells me that sharing stories with friends and family makes connections that give him hope and a sense of purpose. He has found that sharing his lifetime experiences has been a wide range of emotions and feelings of joy, sadness, success and failure.
He believes our characters are formed from our life experiences, that we can learn from our mistakes in life and that they make us stronger and more resilient.
Elsie nudges me and says she had many stories that would make your hair curl when she was a young girl and promises to tell me more another day.
All life stories matter; all of our stories represent who we are, and all our stories help us reminisce.
A quote from Graham Greene’s book The End of an Affair: “A story has no beginning or end: arbitrarily one chooses that moment of experience from which to look back or from which to look ahead.”
Stories are so important and Michael’s story highlights that. Can’t wait for your Christmas one. Xx