Mar 26, 2024

Heartwarming: Mother with Alzheimer’s realises she has been married for 40 years

Mother with Alzheimer's realises she has been married for 40 years
Image courtesy MollyBellDeaton TikTok
@mollybelldeaton After Mom’s neurology appt today; waiting on Dad in the lobby. Trying to keep her occupied in conversation. It always turns to Dad. She looks for him constantly. Their love is so special. 🥰 #dementia #alzheimer #caregiver #alzheimersawareness ♬ original sound – Molly Bell Deaton

A touching moment captured in a viral TikTok video showcases the enduring love between a mother battling Alzheimer’s and her devoted daughter.

Molly Bell Deaton, the creator behind the heartwarming video, shared a tender interaction with her mother, Patti Bell, who at 65 years old is navigating stage 6 of Alzheimer’s disease.

In the clip, Bell gently reminds her mother of a significant milestone: her enduring marriage.

With a warm smile, Bell Deaton asks her mother, “I think y’all been married for 40 years?” To which her mother, Patti Bell, responds with genuine excitement, “Really? Oh my gosh, we are. That’s awesome. I love it.”

The heartwarming exchange unfolded as mother and daughter waited in the lobby of her neurologist’s office, seeking to engage Patti Bell in conversation and distract her from her surroundings.

In the video’s caption, Bell Deaton shares the emotional significance of the moment, noting her mother’s unwavering love for her father, despite the challenges posed by her Alzheimer’s diagnosis. She writes, “Trying to keep her occupied in conversation… Their love is so special.”

The touching video resonated deeply with viewers, amassing over 2.1 million likes and 16.4 million views on TikTok within two months of its posting. Commenters flooded the video with messages of support and empathy, sharing their own experiences caring for loved ones with Alzheimer’s.

Reflecting on the resilience exhibited by Patti Bell, an aged care worker writes, “We have a married couple in my dementia unit and they both won’t move an INCH if the other one isn’t around, it makes me cry everytime.” Others shared personal anecdotes, highlighting the emotional toll of witnessing loved ones grapple with the disease.

Acknowledging the profound impact of her father’s presence on her mother’s well-being, Bell Deaton responds to a commenter, stating, “She is a totally different person when Dad isn’t close by. He is definitely her comfort and security 💔.”

Alzheimer’s disease progresses through seven stages, with stage six characterized by severe cognitive decline and moderately severe dementia, according to the Fisher Center for Alzheimer’s Research Foundation.

Individuals at this stage may struggle with basic activities of daily living and experience difficulty recalling day-to-day information.

Although TikTok is well known for having a younger user base than other social media platforms, Bell Deaton has shared numerous videos of her mother’s Alzheimer’s journey which have garnered heartwarming responses.

One of these videos includes the moment Bell Deaton first introduced her mother to her newborn grandson who instinctively wanted to rock the baby to sleep.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement

Elderly Bupa Resident Found To Have Maggots In Head Wound

An aged care facility on the NSW south coast has come under fire this week after it was revealed that a resident was admitted to hospital with maggots in his head wound. Bupa Aged Care Eden made headlines only weeks ago after it became the 9th Bupa aged care home to be sanctioned for failing... Read More

Retirement village industry “in a state of flux”

The New South Wales retirement village industry is at a “critical” point, where it must improve its reputation, or risk falling “off the face of the earth”. So said Kathryn Greiner, lead of the Greiner Inquiry into Retirement Villages, at Criterion’s ‘Policy, Regulation and Community Engagement in Retirement LIving’ conference, held in Sydney last week.... Read More

Surprise outcome for 78yo with dementia following major financial scam

A 78-year-old man recently diagnosed with dementia has claimed a major win against scammers after ANZ acknowledged it “could have done more” to support him during the ordeal, and now he’s been reimbursed for almost half a million dollars. Read More
Advertisement