Sep 04, 2025

Toddler goes missing from Sydney daycare after Grandpa picks up the wrong child

Toddler goes missing from Sydney daycare after Grandpa picks up the wrong child

A grandfather’s error at First Steps Learning Academy in Bangor triggered a frantic investigation on Tuesday afternoon after he mistakenly took home the wrong toddler, leaving another child temporarily missing from the childcare centre in Sydney’s south.

Ronald Thompson, a retiree tasked with picking up his two-year-old grandson, Liam, arrived at the centre during nap time. The toddler room was dimly lit, with children resting in their cots. An educator, momentarily distracted, directed Mr. Thompson to a cot where a child with dark, curly hair (resembling Liam) was sleeping.

Unfamiliar with the centre’s pick-up routine and focused on securing the child in an unfamiliar car seat, Mr. Thompson did not notice the error. The child, Ethan, aged two, was also clutching a dummy, a detail that further aligned with Liam’s appearance, particularly as he had been unwell and teething recently.

Mr. Thompson transported Ethan to his home, where his wife, Margaret, assumed care of the child. Noting his subdued demeanour, she attributed it to ongoing teething discomfort, unaware that the child was not their grandson. The couple allowed Ethan to continue resting, oblivious to the unfolding situation at the centre.

The error came to light when Ethan’s mother, Sarah Mitchell, arrived at First Steps to collect her son. Discovering his absence, Ms. Mitchell alerted staff, who promptly reviewed CCTV footage.

The footage confirmed that Mr. Thompson had been handed Ethan instead of Liam. Staff immediately contacted the Thompsons, who were shocked to realise their mistake. Ethan was swiftly returned to his mother, and Liam, who had remained at the centre, was reunited with his parents.

Both children were unharmed, though the incident left all parties shaken.

The Thompsons expressed profound regret, citing the darkened room and Ethan’s similar appearance to Liam as contributing factors. Ms. Mitchell, while relieved, acknowledged the incident as a genuine mistake but emphasised the need for stricter protocols.

First Steps Learning Academy responded decisively. Director Trisha Hastie issued a formal apology, stating, “We deeply regret the distress caused to the families involved and our wider community. The safety of every child is our paramount concern.”

The educator responsible was suspended pending review, and the centre implemented enhanced procedures, including mandatory photo ID checks, authorised collection cards, a dedicated foyer staff member during pick-up hours, and a doorbell-controlled entry system.

The NSW Early Childhood Education and Care Regulatory Authority initiated a thorough investigation, describing the incident as “serious and concerning” and committing to actions to safeguard children’s wellbeing.

First Steps confirmed that no such incident had previously occurred at Bangor or its affiliated centres, underscoring their commitment to preventing a recurrence.

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